Another Mother

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 A Jamaican Woman, The Jewish Boy She Raised and His Quest for Her Secret History.

From Jamaica to New Jersey, Ross Kenneth Urken chronicles the life of Dezna Sanderson, the Jamaican nanny who had an outsize positive effect on his dysfunctional Jewish American family and life trajectory.

By: Ross Kenneth Urken

 

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A rollicking romp across Jamaica that pulls at the heart strings Newsweek

Earnest, heartwarming carried along by stylish writing LA Review of Books

A memorable hybrid of heartfelt memoir and fond commemoration framed in Caribbean history, familial turmoil, and unconditional maternal loveKirkus Reviews

A relentless search for purposefulness amid the din of daily living. Authentic and deftly written. –Jamaica Gleaner

A ‘perfect’ book has a number of entry points…Urken’s wry sense of humour, perfectly timed anecdotes and crisp, concise personal history along with snippets of Jamaican history make this a finely nuanced memoir.Trinidad and Tobago Newsday

Pitch-perfect Jamaica Observer

Humility and the complicated eagerness of childhood love animate Another Mother, an unusual but urgently needed memoir.Caribbean Beat

Urken is steadfast in his affection for Denza, wearing his heart on his sleeve throughout, his abiding love for her evident. Although he cannot bring her back, he has taken great pains to resurrect her story while finding a new kinship with her family. In doing so, he writes, he reaches his ‘spiritual Promised Land, a personal Zion.-The Guardian

After his cherished childhood nanny dies, a Jewish young man entering adulthood realises there’s so much he has yet to learn about the woman who lent him her accent and with whom he shared an unlikely kindred spirit. Part memoir, part reportage, Another Mother is a story about family, an unlikely duo, and a woman whose strength held it all together. From Jamaica to New Jersey, Ross Kenneth Urken chronicles the life of Dezna Sanderson, the Jamaican nanny who had an outsize positive effect on his dysfunctional Jewish American family and life trajectory. 

An anchor in a volatile home – plagued by addiction and mental illness – Dezna became Urken’s closest confidante and inspired in him a love of words and narrative. But she vanished before he could ask all the essential questions he wanted about her life – adult to adult. There was a tacit privacy agreement she maintained during his childhood, a sacrosanct code of silence. Her role was to maintain order in this American household while obscuring the chaos of her own past. Yet because she transcended the call of duty in her love and maternal care, the author finds that gag-order null and void.

As redemption for his missed opportunity, he goes on a quest to find her through an authentic connection to her Jamaican homeland and her family members. He digs deeper into her family life – the three loves, the eight children – and the hardships she faced in her native country – the poverty, the family pineapple business ravaged economically by a calculated CIA plot. After becoming a widow, she escaped to the country that undid hers in search of a better future – forced with the difficult decision of leaving her own kids behind to provide for them. In his quest for the truth of Dezna’s past, Urken also encounters unexpected secrets and a spiritual Promised Land. 

 

Additional information

Weight 1 lbs
Dimensions 9 × 6 in
ISBN

978-976-8286-06-2

Binding

Paperback

Page Count

206

Publication Date

October 2019

About the Author

Ross Kenneth Urken is an American journalist who has written for The Washington Post, The New York Times, The Paris Review, The Atlantic, VICE, Tablet, National Geographic, Newsweek, New York, Esquire, The Wall Street Journal, Bloomberg Businessweek, Sports Illustrated, ESPN, The New Republic, Scientific American, the BBC, The Guardian, and Travel + Leisure. A graduate of Princeton University, he lives in Manhattan with his wife.

Contents

  1. As It Was in the Beginning
  2. Of Melodies Pure and True
  3. Miss Dezna
  4. Mum’s the Word
  5. Exodus
  6. Thanks and Praise
  7. Nanny of the Maroons
  8. Could You Be Loved?
  9. Fleeing the Nest
  10. Jamrock-A-Bye
  11. Mother of Invention
  12. Blue-Blue
  13. Waak Good
  14. The Nanny’s Irie
  15. The Society of Jamaican Nanny Boys
  16. The Aftermath
  17. One Blood
  18. Redemption Psalm

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